社会社交需求

作为social beings，人类在满足以上基本需求之外都渴求家庭幸福、爱情美满、并寻求社会的归属感。请看题目：

Describe an activity you tried and enjoyed recently.

参考段子：

The activity that I have done recently a volunteering work I did, actually it is a program focusing on the education quality of underprivileged(弱势群体的) kids, I went to the poverty-stricken region of my country together with other members and taught there for a week. I have been taught by my parents to be loving person from day one, and I think this was a really meaningful experience, cuz I feel like the unlucky kids deserve a sense of belonging to the community and love from others.

解析： 这个段子提高自己去偏远地区支教，并指出一个人要怀有怜悯之心，而能帮助贫困地区的儿童学点知识有助于培养他们对社会的归属感。

再如：Describe a big decision you have made recently.

参考段子：

Well, I would say a major decision that I made recently is to study in America. Actually, it takes a long time to decide, you know there are lots of challenges if I study there, like language barriers, cultural shock and stuff.

But I finally made the decision, cuz I think I should focus on the bright side of going there, like I would experience the things that I never got a chance to, I can interact with my counterparts and exchange refreshing ideas, by socializing with local students, it is possible for me to learn their culture, customs, way of living and thus I can broaden my horizon and enrich my experience.

解析：

第一段是个lead in, 提出去美国学习挑战并举例如语言障碍、文化差异，但很快就进入主题，出国之后可以了解异域文化、生活习惯风土人情，在跟他们的社交和交流中更是可以拓宽视野、丰富人生经历。

· 尊重的需求Need of Respect

这是更高的需求如成就、名声、地位、晋升机会公开奖励和表扬等。尊重需求既包括对成就或自我价值的个人感觉，也包括他人对自己的认可与尊重。

Do you agree or disagree: Students should wear uniform in school? Please include specific details and examples in your opinion.

参考段子：

I definitely agree that students to wear uniforms in school. Requiring students to wear uniforms cultivates students' strong sense of belonging to their school, and also students might feel very proud and receive the gory and recognition whenever they are wearing their school uniforms.

解析：建议学生穿校服，可以增加他们的归属和荣誉感-尊重的需求。

· 自我实现的需求 the Need of Self-actualization

人活在世上绝非吃喝玩乐，在满足以上需求后要做点让自己没有白白来到这个世界的事情,也就是实现自己的价值。

请看题目：

If you get a chance to choose a job, what will you do? What’s your reason for choosing this job? Please give your statement and include specific examples and details in your opinion.

参考段子：

I would say my dream job is to be a lawyer, actually my dream to an attorney can be dated back to my childhood. It takes lots of work to be lawyer, you need to go to law school and pass the bar. However, I think since I am so determined and motivated, that won't be a big problem.

解析：第一句话回答问题说明想做律师，虽然是个挑战相信自己的坚持一定会实现。

Lawyer is a noble profession with big monetary reward, but I think there is more than that, I can leverage the law to help the underprivileged and unlucky ones in the society, like those who got ripped off by employers, got taken advantaged by unfair institutions, and I think it is a noble cause, indeed, being a lawyer, one can realize their value to society by helping these people out.

解析：阐述做律师不仅赚钱，更重要的是可以帮助更多的弱势群体，实现自己的社会价值。